Referrals Domestic Violence
Resource List
Helplines for advice and support
In the US: call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)
UK: call Women’s Aid at 0808 2000 247
Australia: call 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732
Worldwide: visit International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies for a global list of helplines, shelters, and crisis centers.
For a safe place to stay
US visit Womenslaw.org for a state-by-state directory of domestic violence shelters in the U.S.
Helpguide’s Yellow Pages
When contacting anyone, it will be helpful for you to briefly explain your situation, why you need assistance, which party you are, and where you are filing your case. Try locating a resource who is familiar with and believes in your ultimate goal, maintaining an ongoing relationship with your children after the divorce or separation. Keep in mind, it is always better to resolve issues related to custody, visitation and support directly with your co-parent than to go to court.
Help for Abused and Battered Families
Domestic Violence: Finding Safety & Support – Guide for abused and battered families offers advice on getting safe, using the police or the courts, and finding support. (New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence)
Breaking the Silence: a Handbook for Victims of Violence in Nebraska(PDF) – Help and advice for abused and battered women, including legal options. (Nebraska Health and Human Services)
Help for Abused Men
While the majority of domestic violence victims are women, abuse of men happens far more often than you'd probably expect.
Typically, men are physically stronger than women but that doesn't necessarily make it easier to escape the violence or the relationship.
Domestic violence hotlines
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) – A crisis intervention and referral phone line for domestic violence. The service also has an email address and access for the deaf. Hotline staff members can speak in English or Spanish and have access to translators for many other languages. (National Domestic Violence Hotline)
Domestic violence shelters and support
Tour a Domestic Violence Shelter – Find out what you can expect at a typical women’s refuge or shelter and hear personal experiences of what life there is like. (Safe Horizon)
Tips for staying safe and protecting yourself
Safety Planning – Guidelines for how to safely leave an abusive relationship, what to do if you've filed a restraining order, and what to do once you've left the relationship. (Women’s Law Initiative)
Internet Security – Gives detailed instructions on how to clear your computer’s Internet browser and email account from showing evidence of your seeking help for domestic abuse. (Women’s Law Initiative)
Protecting Your Identity – Tips for keeping your identity and location a secret after leaving an abusive relationship. (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence)
Domestic Violence Resource Center 1-800-656-HOPE
The National Domestic Violence Hotline is staffed 24 hours a day by trained counselors who can provide crisis assistance and information about shelters, legal advocacy, health care centers, and counseling.
The Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network (RAINN) will automatically transfer you to the rape crisis center nearest you, anywhere in the nation. It can be used as a last resort if people cannot find a domestic violence shelter.
Visit the U.S. Department of Justice Violence Against Women Office for information and resources, including government press releases and statements or RAINN the largest anti-sexual assault organization page.
Domestic Violence Resource Center
- Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence
P.O. Box 4762 Montgomery, AL 36101 1-800-650-6522 (state) TTY: 1-800-787-3224 Another State: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Alaska Network on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
130 Seward Street, Room 209 Juneau, AK 99801 Phone: 907-586-3650 FAX: 907-463-4493 Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Arizona Coalition Against Domestic Violence
2800 N. Central Ave., Suite 1570 Phoenix, AZ 85004 Phone: 602-279-2900 TTY: 602-279-7270 1-800-782-6400 E-mail: acadv@azcadv.org
- Arkansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence
1401 West Capitol Ave, Suite 170 Little Rock AR 72201 Phone: (501) 907-5612 FAX: (501)907-5618 Toll Free: (800)269-4668
- Coalition for Family Harmony
1030 N. Ventra Rd Oxnard, CA 93030 Phone: 805-983-6014 FAX: 805-654-1264 24-Hour Hotline: 805-656-1111 Spanish Hotline: 800-300-2181 TDD: 805-656-4439
- Orange County Child Abuse Hotline
714-940-1000
- Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence
P.O. Box 18902 Denver, CO 80218 TOLL-FREE: 888-778-7091 Phone: 303-831-9632 FAX: 303-832-7067 E-mail: ccadv@ccadv.org
- D.C. Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence Intake Center 500 Indiana Ave NW Superior Court Room 4235 Washington, DC 20001 Phone: 202-879-7851 FAX: 202-387-5684 Hours: 8:30am-4:30pm
- Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence
100 W. 10th Street Suite 703 Wilmington, DE 19801 Phone: 302-658-2958 FAX: 302-658-5049 Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
- Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence
425 Office Plaza Dr. Tallahassee, FL 32301 TOLL-FREE: 800-500-1119 Phone: 850-425-2749 FAX: 850-425-3091 FL Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-500-1119 FL Domestic Violence Hotline TTY: 1-800-621-4202
- Florida Domestic Violence Crisis And Support Resources
- Georgia Advocates for Battered Women and Children
250 Georgia Avenue, S.E., Suite 308 Atlanta, GA 30312 TOLL-FREE: 800-334-2836 Phone: 404-524-3847 FAX: 404-524-5959
- Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
716 Umi St., Unit 210 Honolulu, HI 96819 Phone: 808-832-9316 Fax: 808-841-6028 Email: hscadv@pixi.com 24 Hr Shelters (Hawaii..By Island)
- Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence
515 28th St Des Moines, IA 50312 TOLL-FREE: 800-942-0333 Phone: 515-244-8028 FAX: 515-244-7417
- Idaho Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence
815 Park Blvd, Suite 140 Boise, ID 83712 TOLL-FREE: 888-293-6118 Phone: 208-384-0419 FAX: 208-331-0687 E-mail: jmatshushita@idvsa.org
- llinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence
801 South 11th Street Springfield, Illinios 62703 Phone: 217-789-2830 FAX: 217-789-1939 TTY: 217-241-0376 E-mail: ilcadv@springnet1.com
- Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
1915 W. 18th Street Indianapolis, IN 46202 TOLL-FREE: 800-538-3393 Phone: 317-917-3685 Fax 317-917-3695 Crisis Line: 1-800-332-7385
- Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence
220 S.W. 33rd, Suite 100 Topeka, KS 66611 TOLL-FREE: 888-END-ABUSE (Kansas state-wide hotline) Phone: 785-232-9784 FAX: 785-266-1874
- Kentucky Domestic Violence Association
P.O. Box 356 Frankfort, KY 40602 Phone: 502-209-5382 FAX: 502-226-5382
- Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
P.O. Box 77308 Baton Rouge, LA 70879-7308 Phone: 225-752-1296 FAX: 225-751-8927
- Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence
170 Park St. Bangor, ME 04401 Phone: 207-941-1194 FAX: 207-941-2327 Email: mcedv@mcedv.org
- Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence
6911 Laurel Bowie Road, Suite 309 Bowie, MD 20715 TOLL-FREE: 800-MD-HELPS Phone: 301-352-4574 FAX: 301-809-0422
- Jane Doe Inc./Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence
14 Beacon Street, Suite 507 Boston, MA 02108 Phone: 617-248-0922 FAX: 617-248-0902 TTY/TDD: 617-263-2200
- Bay County Women's Center
P.O. Box 1458 Bay City, MI 48706 TOLL-FREE: 800-834-2098 Phone: 517-686-4551 FAX: 517-686-0906 Michigan 24-Hour Crisis Line: 517-265-6776
- Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women
450 North Syndicate Street, Suite 122 St. Paul, MN 55104 Metro-Area Hotline: 651-646-0994 Phone: 651-646-6177 FAX: 651-646-1527 E-mail: mcbw@pclink.com
- Missouri Coalition Against Domestic Violence
1000-D Northeast Drive Jefferson City, MO 65109 Phone: 573-636-8776 FAX: 573-636-6613
- Montana Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
PO Box 818 Helena MT 59624 tel: 406.443.7794 or toll free at 888-404-7794 fax: 406.443.7818
- Nebraska Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Coalition
825 M Street, Suite 404 Lincoln, NE 68508-2253 TOLL-FREE: 800-876-6238 Phone: 402-476-6256 FAX: 402-476-6806
- Nevada Network Against Domestic Violence
220 S. Rock Blvd. Ste. 7 Reno , NV 89502 TOLL-FREE: 800-500-1556 Phone: 775-828-1115 FAX: 775-828-9991
- New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
P.O. Box 353Concord, NH 03302-0353 TOLL-FREE: 800-852-3388 (in New Hampshire) Helpline: 603-225-9000 (outside of New Hampshire) Phone: 603-224-8893 Fax: 603-228-6096 1-866-644-3574 For a domestic violence center near you 1-800-277-5570 Sexual Assault
- New Mexico State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
200 Oak St NE #4 Albuquerque, NM 87106 TOLL-FREE: 800-773-3645 (in New Mexico Only) Legal Helpline: 800-209-DVLH Phone: 505-246-9240 FAX: 505-246-9434 E-mail: nmcadv@nmcadv.org
- New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
350 New Scotland Avenue Albany New York 12208 Phone: 518-482-5465 English: 1-800-942-6906 English TTY: 1-800-818-0656 Spanish: 1-800-942-6908 Spanish TTY: 1-800-780-7660 Email us at nyscadv@nyscadv.org
- North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence
123 W. Main Street, Suite 700 Durham , NC 27701 Phone: 919-956-9124 FAX: 919-682-1449 Toll Free: 1-888-232-9124
- North Dakota Council on Abused Women's Services
State Networking Office 418 East Rosser Avenue, Suite 320 Bismarck, ND 58501 TOLL-FREE: 800-472-2911 (In ND Only) Phone: 701-255-6240 FAX: 701-255-1904
- Ohio Domestic Violence Network
4807 Evanswood Drive Suite 201 Columbus , Ohio 43229 (614) 781-9651 (614) 781-9652 Fax (614) 781-9654 TTY E-mail: info@odvn.org
- Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
3815 N. Santa Fe Avenue, Suite 124 Oklahoma City , OK 73118 405-524-0700 telephone 405-524-0711 fax
- Oregon Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
380 Spokane St. Suite 100 Portland , OR 97202 Telephone: 503-230-1951 Fax: 503-230-1973 Statewide Crisis Number: 1-888-235-5333
- Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence/National Resource Center on Domestic Violence
6440 Flank Drive, Suite 1300 Harrisburg, PA 17112-2778 TOLL-FREE: 800-932-4632 Phone: 717-545-6400 FAX: 717-545-9456
- Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence
422 Post Road, Suite 202 Warwick, RI 02888 TOLL-FREE: 800-494-8100 Phone: 401-467-9940 FAX: 401-467-9943 ricadv@ricadv.org
- South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
P.O. Box 7776 Columbia, SC 29202-7776 TOLL-FREE: 800-260-9293 Phone: 803-256-2900 FAX: 803-256-1030
- South Dakota Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
P.O. Box 141 Pierre, SD 57501 TOLL-FREE: 800-572-9196 Phone: 605-945-0869 FAX: 605-945-0870
- Tennessee Task Force Against Domestic Violence
P.O. Box 120972 Nashville, TN 37212 TOLL-FREE: 800-289-9018 Phone: 615-386-9406 FAX: 615-383-2967
- Texas Council on Family Violence
P.O. Box 161810 Austin, TX 78716 TOLL-FREE: 800-525-1978 Phone: 512-794-1133 FAX: 512-794-1199
- Vermont Network Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
P.O. Box 405 Montpelier, VT 05601 Phone: 802-223-1302 FAX: 802-223-6943 E-mail: vnadvsa@sover.net
- Virginians Family Violence and Sexual Assault Hotline
2850 Sandy Bay Road, Suite 101 Williamsburg, VA 23185 TOLL-FREE: 800-838-VADV Phone: 757-221-0990 FAX: 757-229-1553
- Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
WSCADV- Olympia Office 101 N. Capitol Way, Suite 103 Olympia, WA 98501 Phone: 360-586-1022 Fax: 360-586-1024 TTY: 360-586-1029
- West Virginia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Elk Office Center 4710 Chimney Drive, Suite A Charleston, WV 25302 Phone: 304-965-3552 FAX: 304-965-3572
- Manitowoc Domestic Violence Center
PO Box 1142 Manitowoc, WI 54220 Phone: 920-684-5770
- Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
409 South 4th Street P.O. Box 236 Laramie, WY 82073 TOLL-FREE: 800-990-3877 Phone: 307-755-5481 FAX: 307-755-5482
- YWCA Battered Women Task Force
225 SW 12th St. Topeka, KS 66612 Daytime: 785-354-7927 Evening and Weekend: 785-234-3300 Outside Topeka: 1-888-822-2983